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Information and advice on supporting a bereaved child

Supporting a bereaved child can be tough. We provide information and guidance about our bereavement service, support for grief and loss.

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Bereavement support service for grief and loss in children and young people

Our expert team at Winston’s Wish offer a bereavement service by way of advice, guidance and bereavement support to children, young people, and families before and after the death of a parent, sibling or other important person. Below you will find guidance on topics including, support for grief and loss, talking to children about death, attending a funeral and coping with anniversaries. Also, we share our suggested reading list and activities to download, plus specialist advice for deaths by suicide, homicide and serious illness and advice on supporting children with SEND after a bereavement.

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Support before a person dies

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What is death or bereavement?
How to prepare children for the death of someone important: image with a Asian woman holding the hand of a small child as they walk down a path shielded by trees
How to prepare children for the death of someone important
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How to tell children and young people someone is seriously ill
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Should I tell my children their loved one is dying?
How to prepare a child for the death of a parent by cancer. Mum and daughter sat together on sofa reading from a booklet
How to prepare children for the death of a parent by cancer
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How to write a sympathy card to a child or young person
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Talking about death

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Telling a child someone has died
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How to talk to children about death
Small girl sat on the floor looking sad while her mum strokes her hair
How to support a child with funerals and crematoriums
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Young Asian child looking at parent.
Explaining death in service to children and young people
Are my children too young to know how their parent or sibling died: small boy with blonde hair looking out of the window
Are my children too young to know how their parent or sibling died?
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How to talk to children about death in the news

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Ways to cope and remember

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Helping a child remember someone who has died: two children painting a banner that reads 'Daddy'
Helping a child remember someone who has died
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Supporting a child on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day 
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Coping with anniversaries and special days after someone has died
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Young girl looking upset and being hugged by her mum - Supporting children after a baby dies - Winston's Wish
Supporting children and young people after a baby dies

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Ways to cope and support

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Supporting a child bereaved of both parents
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How to help a child after the death of a parent
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Helping children with their grief and mental health
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What to say (and what not to say) to a grieving young person
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Supporting a grieving teenager
White mum using smartphone with daughter at home.
Do children and young people grieve differently?
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Mother and young daughter hugging - Managing separation anxiety in children after a bereavement - Winston's Wish
Managing separation anxiety in children after a bereavement
Young boy cuddling toy at bedtime and being comforted by parent
Helping grieving children experiencing nightmares and sleep difficulties
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Tips for Foster Carers supporting bereaved children and young people
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How to help a child grieving the death of a pet
How to help a child grieving the death of a pet
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Talking to grieving children about a new relationship after the death of a parent
Supporting bereaved children with no memories of their person: small boy holding a night light and looking out of a dark window
Supporting bereaved children with no memories of their person

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Support at School

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Supporting grieving young people during their exams
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How can teachers and schools help a grieving child go back to school?
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How to support your child returning to school after a bereavement
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Supporting a grieving child transitioning from primary to secondary school
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Supporting a child when a friend or another student from their school has died

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SEND Support

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Dad and daughter sat at a table doing colouring - supporting neurodivergent grieving children
Supporting neurodivergent grieving children
Black child wearing headphones looking at tablet device.
Supporting a bereaved child who has autism
Parent using tablet device with child with SEND.
Telling a child with SEND someone has died
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Do children with SEND understand death?

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Sudden, traumatic and accidental death

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Explaining death through drugs and alcohol to children
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Talking about sudden death with children and young people
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Supporting children and young people after a sudden or traumatic death
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Explaining homicide to children and young people: small blonde boy hugging a parent on a beach front
Explaining homicide to children and young people
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How to explain suicide to children and young people
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Should I tell my child their important person died by suicide?
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How to explain an accidental death to a child or young person

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Resources for bereaved children and young people

Suggested reading list

A list of books to help bereaved children of different ages to understand what has happened and help them express their feelings.

VIEW READING LIST
Activities

Activities to help grieving children and young people express their feelings and to help them maintain memories of the person who has died.

DOWNLOAD ACTIVITIES
Stories from young people

Our young people’s website Talk Grief is packed with advice and tips from our bereavement support team, as well as real life stories from other grieving young people.

VISIT TALKGRIEF.ORG
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