Raising awareness of the thousands of children bereaved by suicide
Childhood bereavement charity, Winstonâs Wish, pledges to raise awareness of the thousands of children who are bereaved by suicide each year, through the release of a short film entitled #HopeAfterSuicide.
The film, has been directed and produced by filmmaker Phil Beastall â the man behind the ÂŁ50 âLove is a Giftâ short that went viral last Christmas.
âIn the UK, on average, someone takes their own life every 90 minutesâ, says Fergus Crow, CEO of Winstonâs Wish. âMany of these may be the parents and siblings of children who are left overwhelmed and bewildered by what has happened.
âPublic awareness of suicide is increasingly higherâ, explains Crow, âbut awareness of the consequences for the children bereaved by suicide is not. Many of these children will have returned to school this month: the reality of their summer holiday âstoriesâ in stark contrast to those of their friends and classmates.
âOur aim is to shine a light on the reality of this issue – because if we donât address it, then we are leaving thousands of children to suffer.
âSuicide is a sudden and often unexpected death which can have a particularly devastating effect on young people. An experience which â left unsupported â can lead to very negative life outcomes â including developmental issues and mental health disorders, bullying or being bullied, lower educational attainment, high-risk behaviour, unemployment, crime and social exclusion.â
These risks â according to recent academic studies â are increased further when the bereavement is by suicide, with research showing that âpeople who are bereaved as a result of suicide are themselves at increased risk of taking their own lifeâ.*
Evidence shows, however, that for many young people, these risks can be mitigated against with well-managed support.
Director of Family Services at Winstonâs Wish, Sacha Richardson explains: âThe support a child receives after the death of close loved one can help to define the rest of their lives. With the right support, a bereaved child can go on to live a full, flourishing and healthy life â and so our message to all those affected is that âthere absolutely is hope after suicideâ.â
Filmmaker Phil Beastall became impassioned with the work of Winstonâs Wish after visiting one of our family centres: âWhat the charity does for childrenâs futures is immeasurable â many of the children they work with have been bereaved in deeply traumatic circumstances. I make my living out of telling emotional stories which hopefully make a difference to all who watch them â and when I learned how Winstonâs Wish therapeutically supports children in finding the words to be able to tell their own stories â no matter how difficult those stories are â I just had to give my support. These childrenâs stories need to be heard and I sincerely hope that this film will make a difference not only for the charity but also for the children who need support.â
âMy hopeâ, concludes Fergus Crow, âis that this film will not only raise awareness of the devastating effect suicide can have on children but, most importantly, signpost adults who may be supporting a bereaved child to the support and advice available through Winstonâs Wish, as well as raise vital funds for us to be able to do the work we do.â
To find out more about the #HopeAfterSuicide campaign, go to winstonswish.org/hope-after-suicide
If you are supporting a child who has been bereaved by suicide, Winstonâs Wish provides individual guidance and information on how to talk to children about this type of death, as well as offering on-going support for grieving families and professionals supporting a grieving child.
 Freephone National Helpline: 08088 020 021, 8am â 8pm Monday â Friday
* Colleen McLaughlin, Martin Lytje and Carol Holliday (2019). Consequences of childhood bereavement in the context of the British school system.